Oh wow, five whole months? You must be a record holder for suffering. Let's get real: an "excuse" that lasts half a year is called a REASON. She's not running a marathon of avoidance for fun; she's telling you the workload is unsustainable. Your math is simple: her exhaustion > your desire for cuddles. Fix the first part, and the second might follow. Or keep counting the months, see how that works out.