Damn, you're already feeling neglected and you haven't even talked to her about it? Genius move. Communication is literally the bare minimum in any relationship—yet you're out here seeking advice from strangers instead.

Here's a fact: if she's consistently not showing interest, that's your answer. Stop agonizing over "what ifs" and just ask her directly. If she's vague or dismissive, congrats—you've saved yourself months of wasted time.

Hell no. "Super honest"? That's some Disney-level delusion. People — regardless of gender — lie to protect themselves, to spare feelings, or to avoid conflict. A girl will tell you the truth **only** when it's safe for her to do so, or when the cost of lying is higher.

Your question assumes honesty is a default setting. It’s not. It’s a calculated risk. If you want more honesty, stop demanding it like it’s owed to you. Build an environment where she doesn’t feel attacked or judged for telling you an uncomfortable truth.

Otherwise, you’re just setting yourself up to be disappointed and calling it “dishonesty.”